Love Life is a Zikoko weekly series about love, relationships, situationships, entanglements and everything in between. Today on Love Life, they talk about having casual sex while living together, dating other people and what they want from a relationship in the future. Sarimah : I met him on Twitter in December You know how you just flirt randomly with people on the internet. I was in Abuja and he was in Lagos so we were just flirting with no plans to see each other. We kept texting on and off on Twitter.
I would send him messages randomly. He would do the same. We exchanged nudes and videos. You know, just random risky, sexy things. Kachi : That continued for a couple of months until we met in May She moved to Lagos in April and we planned to hang out. Sarimah : There was a lot of traffic so I took a bike to his estate. I called him when I got to the gate. I was still on the phone with him trying to locate his house when I saw someone that looked like him but this person was bald.
Sarimah : We started making out while we were gisting and then we had sex. We both liked it so after that day, we kept seeing each other. I would go to his house, spend the week and be back home by weekend. We are friends with benefits. We sleep with each other often but we also sleep with other people.
Kachi : We use protection with other people so we can keep each other safe. Kachi : LOL. I am straight but I am open to exploring anything within the confines of my sexuality. That happened recently. We had been seeing other people since we started having sex and Sarimah was fine with it. Sarimah : Last week, he went out on a date. He picked out his clothes days before. It was funny because I went on a date with a girl some days before his date and I was really excited about it.
I am embarrassed to say that I was threatened by his date and I realised that if anything happened to jeopardise the relationship we have, I would be sad. I am used to it. Jealousy is definitely going to pop in. We decided I would come up with a hack of my own. Kachi : Honestly, Sarimah tried for lasting this long without acting out. In previous relationships with women that looked like this, within weeks, we would have issues about the other women I was seeing.
