It can be a subject of great contention for some women. My husband has told me on numerous occasions that this is a subject that men discuss.
One of his fellow associates even said, "Women would rule the world if they would just give their husbands the blow job that they want. What is the fascination β the importance! Even women's magazines like "Cosmo" and "Glamour" try to convince women that this is something that we should be doing on a regular basis. If all you want to do is get naked and have sex, why is this also so important? I know that my younger counterparts do not have as many hang-ups about blow jobs, but as a woman who was born in the late s, I like many others in my generation was trained by my mother to never consider going down on a guy because it's for prostitutes and bad girls.
So, what do I do now that it is common practice? Let me respond to it in a direct, succinct manner. Men are wild about getting oral sex and there are quite a few reasons for this. There's something about being enveloped by the warm wetness of an insistent mouth that really gets our blood boiling.
You see, oral sex is more of an ensemble piece than vaginal sex. A good blow job requires the mutual cooperation of lips, tongue, saliva, hand, and β on very rare occasions β a receptive gullet. Tough for your nether regions to compete with such a well-oiled oral team.
Unlike regular sex where we have to be concerned about being hard enough, big enough and long-lasting enough, "lingual love" carries with it no such angst-inducing pressures. We are literally free to relax and enjoy ourselves knowing that our orgasm will arrive at the appropriate time β no matter how soon that is. Unless we have mirrors or video recording devices in our bedroom, we never really get to visually experience sex when we are actively participating in it.
