I posted the survey all over, but got respondents mainly from 4 locations β fetlife , my blog , reddit , and twitter Total N after cleaning up a few fake-looking responses was 7, Likelihood ratios mean basically how much more likely the observed correlation is than a correlation of 0. I did clear out troll responses I noticed so I think this is a bit less likely, but who knows. This seems pretty in line with the discourse.
A pretty weak but real effect. They should be fully anonymous, given the girth of this sample size, but I binned the age data anyway to be safe. Crossposted to Lesswrong here. My sense of clarity around my own intentions crumbled; everything I thought or did might have seemed good on the surface, but that goodness became just a disguise for my true, darker intentions β all helpfully revealed to me by my dad. And naming it is really hard , because at first glance frame control looks like completely normal behavior.
Your frame is basically the set of assumptions you hold about the world around you, in every way there is β your values, your identity, your beliefs about meaning and social norms and economics and whatever, although most of it tends to be implicit or subconscious; probably only a small portion of your frame is directly expressible! Imagine your frame exists as a box around you; when someone engages with you, they try to get you out of your box and into their box in various ways.
This can be via stuff like:. These are all attempts to control your frame, but none of these is what I mean by frame control. Frame control is a quiet subversion of your agency; instead of offering up their frame for you to consider, they pull you in without consent, into a world you probably would never have endorsed from the outside. Frame control often results in doubt, denial, or suppression of your own feelings, as the frame controller has you in their frame and exerts a huge amount of energy to keep you there.
Your own experience is warped to align with that of the frame controller, even especially? For a very simple, obvious example not all of them are so obvious! This made me angry, but his frame treated my anger as a sign that I was sinful and corrupt, and I thus experienced my anger as a failure on my part.
