Posted April 27, Reviewed by Ekua Hagan. When I launched my website, I expected people to find it by searching "sex after 40," "sex and menopause ," "erectile dysfunction," "penis size," and "desire differences. But a surprising number have found the site by using two search terms I never expected: "rimming" and "analingus. If you're repulsed by this, then by all means, don't play that way.
But recent surveys suggest that 15 percent of American adults have experienced some form of anal sexβ that's some 20 million people. I've found no statistics on the prevalence of rimming, however. If you know of any, please comment. Still, as web searches show, many lovers are curious about it, and often feel surprised by their interest. Among those who do try it, many enjoy it.
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Heterosexuals typically stumble upon analingus during cunnilingus. The man's tongue slips further south than he intended, and both lovers realize they've crossed a line. Analingus is a minority pleasure, but there's nothing abnormal about it. If you reflexively condemn it, remember that not too long ago, oral sex was considered a perversion and outlawed in many states.
Analingus feels erotic for the same reason that anal play in general might feel that way. The anus and surrounding tissue are richly endowed with nerves that are highly sensitive to erotic touch. In addition, lovemaking draws much of its emotional power from intimacy , lovers' deep acceptance of each other.
Analingus is a way for the rimmer to say: "I love all of you. No part of you turns me off. No part of me is off limits to you. Of course, rimming also involves a big fear , which is fecal contact.
