Victoria is the Self-Love Scientist; a sex coach for women who educates and empowers women to experience the best version of themselves through self-love practices. Victoria and I talk about best and worst dates, how to exit a date elegantly, and how to start self-romancing yourself. Because after allβ¦. We can buy ourselves flowers, we can hold our own hand. Yvonne: All right, so thank you so much for being here with me today, Victoria. I appreciate you coming on.
Yvonne: I'm super excited to get into your work and what you do, especially around the topics of self romancing and setting boundaries on dates.
That's super juicy, interesting subject. But before we get into that, I just want to ask you, what is the worst date you've ever been on? All right. I'm laughing now. I was not laughing when it happened. I was on Tinder, I matched with a man. There was, like, this attraction. I was drawn to him.
He appeared to be confident, secure in his job, and we exchanged numbers. I appreciated the way he communicated with me. So I drive up there, and we agreed that we would meet at a coffee shop, and the date was going to an art museum, drinking wine and then dinner. And I was like, wow, that sounds great. I love it. And I was like, okay, no, this is fine. This is the first date. It's always like the nerves, we'll just keep going.
But you know how initially you're going to know intuitionally? Like, no! So we go to the art museum. It's very awkward conversations, and they're not even genuinely interested. It's more like trivia. I felt like I was being not persecuted, but interrogated. And we get to the cafe to order the wine, and I'm like, okay, this will be fine.
