What is it, really? Is it realistic? Some of my favorite quotes are:. Catalina Lawsin. She also emphasizes that open relationships are not like affairs, a common misconception. In open relationships partners are open in their sexual activity with others and supportive of it. While no two relationships are alike, there are some general guidelines to consider when trying to establish a healthy open relationship.
Lawsin offers the following checklist, adding that any rules or boundaries should be discussed, negotiated and reassessed occasionally throughout the relationship and adjusted as needed. Boundaries regarding sex should be explicitly negotiated, such as how often sex can occur e. This includes the type of sex as well.
For example, is penetrative sex OK or just oral? What about BDSM? Also, do you prefer your partner to only have sex with strangers who they will never see again or rather with someone you already know and trust. Emotional boundaries can be harder to define and set, but they should definitely be discussed, with each partner being honest about what they can manage for themselves and their partner.
Couples need to specify how many details the other wants to know if any at all as well as how often. This should be reassessed as needed and this also applies to 3.
Schedule time and space to nurture the relationship and make sure to maintain this. Date nights, trips away and expressing love need to be prioritized to maintain the relationship foundation. Book a consult.
