By Anon89 October 20, in Partner Concerns. My partner and I have been together for 6 years, married for a year and bought a house together earlier this year. I thought everything was going so well, we were so happy, or so I thought. Two weeks ago I made the startling discovery that my husband has been sleeping with escorts.
It has come as a huge shock to me, huge shock. I have literally felt every emotion under the sun. From anger to disgust to hatred to blaming myself to stress to upset. Just about every emotion. I have told close family and friends and they have all been very understanding. Well as much as they can be in this situation.
It has come as such a shock to everyone. We have made progress, he has come clean to me, and his family and a close friend. He has gone to the GP, who have diagnosed him with depression and given him anti-depressants. I have been to relate for counselling for myself, and obviously got myself checked for STIs still anxiously awaiting results!
I have also downloaded the book for partners by Paula Hall and it is a very interesting, eye opening read which I can very much relate to. He has also purchased the other book by Paula Hall for him. So, he is ashamed of himself, he physically threw up as he told me.
He wants help, we are making the right steps. I just feel so lost, so numb, so confused by it all. Feel so sad, because underneath this all he is such a lovely kind caring man, he really is. I do love him - which some may find hard to believe after all of this, but I do. Jmpc68 25 posts. Chandon 14 posts.
