As far as sex positions go, the 69 is nothing if not divisive. But love it or hate it, 69 is no passing fad. In case you needed a refresher, 69 describes when people give and receive oral sex at the same time. And there are lots of perks to speak of. For one, psychotherapist and certified sex and couple's therapist Dr. A big height difference between you and your partner can definitely make things tricky logistically. Not to mention, some may have trouble with sexual multitasking and get easily distracted.
Regardless of the aforementioned potential pitfalls, 69 stans insist that experiencing and providing pleasure at the same time is super hotβand we tend to agree. So, bust out that just-in-case lube and a pillow prop, keep an open mind, and give some of these sexy 69 variations a whirl. How it works : Two people align themselves so that each person's mouth is near the other's genitals.
This is done by having one person lie down on their back. The other lies on top of them with their knees straddling their partner's head. The two people can then perform oral sex on one another. In opposite-sex partners, the woman is typically the person on top, whereas the man is on his back.
Pro tip : "Sometimes there can be discomfort under the knees and head," says Cuffs. How it works: It's the same as the classic, however, instead of the woman being on top, the man is. Perks of variation: While not inherent in the variation itself, the inverted 69 position tends to be a rougher experience.
Because with the man on top, he has more control of his thrusting ability and can go a lot harder and deeper down the throat.
