She was young, like me, and new — the best I could find with my cheap insurance. I was her first real client, she was thrilled, I was broke and depressed. Over the course of our six months together, we often sat through extended periods of silence, each of us desperately searching for something to say.
Other times, I rambled about how pointless my life felt, the crushing guilt and fear of abandonment that follows me everywhere, and ill-timed thirst traps, just to fill the space. I did my best to entertain her with overshares and regrettable sex stories from my life as a sad yet charming bisexual, and for a while, that was fine, until I ran out of stories and we fell back into silence.
I left our sessions feeling worse than I did when I arrived. I quit therapy because I needed help from someone who knew what they were doing, and possibly even more importantly, who knew what I was doing, or what I should be doing.
I wanted motivation, advice and accountability from a woman who spanks grown men for a living. In addition to more typical services like fetish play, bondage and corporal punishment, some professional dominatrixes offer life coaching services that focus on confidence-building and improving self-esteem, though many also offer help with anything from fitness goals, dating and professional development.
Princess Marx conducts sessions with clients all over the world either by phone, video chat, or in person. Punishments typically do not involve any physical pain, but can if the client prefers. We use whatever is going to be most effective.
