I just look for someone I connect with and hope that we are both on the same page. So how do I answer the question in a way that helps me filter out the jerks and time wasters whilst still keeping my options open? So, what if you used this question as a way to fantasize about the kind of person you are attracted to and compatible with rather than to define the kind of relationship you want esp.
You are physically and verbally demonstrative. You think a good evening would be scouting out a grocery store and making an ambitious recipe together. You are passionateβ¦about something. How bad could it be?
This IS personal: Married guys, step off. Not to marry, necessarily, but to go on some dates with. What are you into? Have opinions.
Have preferences. Be specific. Speaking of weeding out tools, I also had full-body profile photos and language in the profile about being fat:. What if you were honest and told your dates what you told us? There is no right answer, only your answer. In some ways if that scared some folks off, awesome. So much of online dating is weeding out incompatible folks, so this was a great step. It may be worth noting that I was in my late 30s, so I can understand that may be VERY different coming from someone early 20s.
Be with people who make you feel safe and happy and I think your relationship goals will become clear over time. To be honest, I think this LW might be overthinking the question. I had the same thought. The same timeline, basically, that a person would need to bring up having kids or something else that would be a personal dealbreaker. Yes, THIS. It took me far too long to start dropping the f-bomb feminism in my profile. And opinionated. It acts as a deterrent for people who are a bad fit, and an advertisement to those who are a great fit.
