Over the years my assessment has not always been correct, and I have learned from those mistakes. There is a collaboration between matchmaker and client, however clients have the last word.
In the past 2 months I have turned down 8 or more singles who have called for Bon Jour. Following are some of the reasons I may not accept to work with someone:.
So, there it is. A few reasons why people may not be accepted, at least at the point in time they call. As a Bon Jour client, it is important to realize that not everyone who joins the service is a potential match for you. I will have people of the same sex, people outside of your age range, people outside of your criteria and you may be outside of theirs. That is the value of the open-ended contract! In a few instances, clients were with me long periods of time before fate presented the person they ultimately married.
But because they believed in the service, in me and in the structure, they were patient, and it paid off! I truly aim to only connect people with the type of match they specified which can take time. This is a matchmaking service and all that implies.
And, ultimately, each client makes the decision who they wish to meet. I cannot make clients meet each other, I just give them the space and information to make a solid choice.
