How can I respect and take care of myself and still be DTF? DTR: Defining the Relationship. DTF: Down to Fuck. Describing a temporary or longer-term state of seeking out, typically, casual sex with limited strings attached see Slutever Forever. I, too, appreciate this modern world where sex is readily available with a swipe on a dating app, where friends can celebrate casual, mutual orgasm with a sticky high-five, and all of our relational processes can be defined with texting-friendly abbreviations.
Must intimacy, feelings, and attachments be pushed aside to make space to celebrate casual sex? Before we define our relationships with others we need to first define ourselves β with boundaries. Setting your own physical and emotional boundaries is your right as an autonomous, sexual individual. The church of Tindertopia has paved the way to a sex-positive paradise and put up a dick parking lot. He is also entitled to his boundaries.
Yana Tallon-Hicks is a pleasure-positive sex educator and writer in the Pioneer Valley. She has a website bursting with advices, workshops, and sexual health resources. E-Edition Read E-Edition. Best Of Readers Choice Local Advertisers. Privacy Policy.
