Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody. Mostly to xxxcupid. I get emails like that in my spam from saucy Samantha and names like that. I don't use dating sites or porn sites so no idea how I get them.
If he's not opened them it's probably innocent. Recently emptied my junk folder so can't show you but I get all sorts of rubbish like this. Never makes it to my inbox and never gets opened. Don't know how or why - my browsing history is clean and sites I visit are pretty ordinary no dating sites for example. Click on forgotten password, reset the password and get into his account on the cupid.
If he's innocent then it's junk mail and be doesn't have an account or any recently sent messages. Log in to update your newsletter preferences. Just checked now and I have a fair from from DHL saying a parcel has been lost. I haven't ordered anything.
Also emails from say J Smith, someone I know. Opened it and it just a dodgy link. Several of these from several different names. All are names I know. NurseButtercap , great idea with forgotten password, will definitely check to either put my mind at ease or instruct a divorce lawyer.
Hairystrung It has crossed my mind and I almost did it yesterday. Hence the question here. Just need to find the right moment. Thank you everyone again. Will update! Have you considered that the damage done to your relationship by his cheating is too much, and that you might be better off calling it a day? It's no kind of life doubting and policing your partner, checking up on him - it makes you someone you don't want to be, and it doesn't protect you from it happening again.
