What to do if you develop feelings for an escort Posted by Mavro. So ive been seeing an escort a few times and ive started to develop feelings for her Im assuming the best thing to do is just stop seeing her but wanted to know if anyone else has experienced this and if so what advice can you give?
Thanks Reply Quote. That's an intriguing question and a very tricky one to answer Mavro. Some guys might just say the obvious about infatuation, trickery, risk, best avoid, no more contact, losing the shirt off your back, nip it in the bud etc. And they may be right. But that could be easier said than done. I've never heard or read of an escort giving up her work and forming a normal, satisfactory long term relationship with a client.
Doesn't mean it hasn't happened. But I just reckon she might go for that only if you had loads of money and were able to offer her a lifestye way beyond the average punter can provide. The only also pretty obvious advice I can offer is to ask, and I suppose asking is the only way of finding out, if you could take her out for a drink or a meal with no escort fee involved.
If she agreed, well who knows where that might lead, in a positive way. But if you got a flat refusal, that would put things more in perspective. And if you got a, "Are you fucking kidding me" response well that would reveal a side of her character that puts you off the whole idea and would probably cause you to stop seeing her anyway.
And I'd say the flat refusal would be by far the most likely response. I don't agree with those who say they almost always have near contempt for their clients, I reckon they can grow to quite like regular clients. But I use the word "client" all the time because until you have ironclad proof to the contrary that's what you are. A client. No more and no less. And unfortunately it comes down to a stark question which has to be faced.
