So then the question is, how do you take a girl that you like and turn her into your girlfriend? I wish I knew this back in the day because I used to always sabotage myself. Any time I liked a girl, I would always say the wrong things and women would literally scatter.
It took me a lot of trial and error to really figure this out. But when I did, getting a super high quality girlfriend became really easy and I was able to increase my standards. This is the first mistake that most guys make. This mistake builds a scarcity mindset within them and brings closer to opening a new tab watching women online than landing that cute girl they met and had chemistry with at the coffee shop. The second mistake that guys make is even worse.
And you probably make it every day. Your beliefs about yourself and about women and about the world in general are going to torpedo your chances to get a high quality girlfriend faster than anything else on Earth.
Do you believe women are interested in your personality? Do you believe you deserve a top ten Instagram model girlfriend? You really need to dig in and really find out what makes you tick. It gives you a clear target. Why, you might ask?
Well, that girl certainly has hobbies. She has certain interests and lives a certain way and has a specific type. For example, if you like rocker chicks, then going to rock concerts and getting a bunch of tattoos is probably going to help you land that kind of girl. Do not go for a girl that is your complete opposite. Look, man, understanding your beliefs about yourself and knowing exactly what you want gives you the strongest foundation for meeting women and having the confidence to get a girlfriend.
