By Gary Baum. Senior Writer. It was the first time. Then thereafter it was most every time we would shoot β 10 to 15 times he put me in this position.
The reality is that I knew it was consensual because she initiated it the first time and many of the 15 or so times we had oral sex thereafter. She repeatedly rebuffed him on the trip, she says, and his advances were even more surprising because she identifies as a lesbian.
Still, I thought he was just goofing around. It was as if he had tunnel vision. He was determined to get a blow job. But you need to do something for me.
Kaminsky says she interpreted the conversation as imperiling her professional relationship with him, which at that point defined her career and livelihood. By her account, she thereafter dutifully submitted to his requests on between 10 and 15 occasions. I asked him about that. By late October , Kaminsky says her anxiety over the situation prompted a weeklong absence from Carter Can. And the longer this went on, the less he would allow me to do my job.
If I wanted to step in and touch up his hair and powder, he would push me away. I told myself that this is giving me power. I definitely went out of my way to pretend it was something that I was participating in willfully.
