Help keep it that way. I have been with my unicorn boyfriend for four months. The sexual chemistry between us is out of this world! Or is there something I can do to get him to try it?
But I will say this in his defense … Kissing someone who has just swallowed your load or snowballing with someone who wants you to swallow your own load presents a challenge for many men. So what gives? Immediately after a man ejaculates, his dick starts to go soft, and he loses all interest in sex—hormones have been released into his bloodstream that short-circuit sexual arousal.
Social media and dating apps have given us access to tons of spank material, from that new crush on OkCupid to the monogamously married neighbor you always wanted to bang. Facebook stalking for spank-bank purposes is fine—we all do it—but does it cross a line to actually download the pictures for later? I am a year-old straight woman on the West Coast in a new relationship. My boyfriend and I have just begun exploring anal sex. The first time we had anal sex, my boyfriend came in my ass and then pulled out.
Then we decided to go for a run. A few minutes in, I was leaking all over my pants. Spend a few minutes on the toilet instead—bring your phone; post something to Instagram; let gravity do its thing. Of course not, VILE. The rest of us are just playing. My boyfriend complains that our sex life is too vanilla. Recently, he suggested an open relationship. Can I do anything to fix this? Any insight would be appreciated. But complaining about your sex life without elaborating or giving you any constructive feedback at all is disqualifying assholery, INGAA.
Although I found the article somewhat interesting, I would have preferred that a woman who was an actual lesbian was rendering advice to other lesbians. As a man, you are not qualified to deal out sex advice to women—especially to lesbians. Someone asked you for it. Full stop, STOP. Hell, I sometimes give advice to Republicans despite not being a heartless idiot. Give the gift of the magnum Savage Lovecast at savagelovecast. Dan Savage Dan Savage is an author, sex-advice columnist, podcaster, pundit and public speaker.
