So I was wondering how does an ugly guy navigate things like wanting casual sex or a friends with benefits kind of arrangement? How would I communicate and vocalize wanting something more casual or a friend with benefits arrangement without it being creepy? How would someone like me be able to find someone who wants me sexually when there are probably more handsome men out there who also want the same thing.
It feels like women would rather only have me if I commit rather than be casual with me when there are possibly better looking men wanting the same thing?
There are a lot of things that all of these letters have in common β most of them assume that their weight whether over- or underweight is a disqualifier in and of themselves.
Several bring up their ethnicity. Hell, in one memorable instance, I got a dude who insisted that his index-to-ring-finger ratio meant that no woman would ever love him.
But the one thing that all of these dudes have in common is very, very simple: they have never, ever actually talked to women about this. The ones who insist that you need whatever weird-ass phrenology the incels have come up with this month have never seen how many people go bugfuck for Benedict Cumberbatch. Hell, Peter Dinklage β already a popular guy before Game of Thrones, not to mention already married with children β got catapulted into the stratosphere as a sex-symbol after playing Tyrion Lannister.
