Peter Lu pm, Feb 01, At a swanky downtown lounge, a sultry brunette sits with her back to the bar. She plays with her drink, plays with her hair, plays coy with the rest of the room. Just once, her eyes meet yours and linger for a little longer than they should. You are sitting 10 feet away. In three seconds, you will walk up and seduce her. Your advance can be fast — or slow — as long as you control for the speed of gait unhurried , degree of neck contortion look the opposite direction , and level of feigned disinterest high.
Your facial expression can be calm, lively, arrogant, or critical. Do you want to marry me? Once this verbal foxtrot begins, remain conscious of where you place your eyes: looking inside the triangle created by her eyes and nose engenders friendship, concentrating on the triangle between her eyes and chest signals romantic intentions.
Remember to hold your palms slightly open, facing her, as a subtle indicator of receptivity. Maintain an energy level slightly higher than hers. In , Ross Jeffries, an advocate for the now-obsolete psychotherapy neuro-linguistic programming, released How to Get the Women You Desire into Bed; the book catalyzed the formation of the Internet newsgroup alt.
The sub-culture lay dormant for the next 10 years. The book appeared as Amazon. But why the need for the seduction community in the first place? It was created to mitigate another equalizing movement: the original sexual revolution. In the s, even dating was usurped by the hook-up. Under the new model, you hook up a few times and, if you really like the person, you might consider going on a date.
The result? In , it was 27 for men and 26 for women. While the s male is confined to one sexual partner and discreet trysts , the s male can take home a different woman every night, a benefit of expanded sexual freedom. But the truth is more nuanced.
