Brushing your teeth, emptying the dishwasher or having sex with a stranger are all banal activities in the lives of Danish singles, but the latter can be quite a confusing experience for inbounding expats. My Moroccan male friend is one of them. All he had to do to get laid was to show up and be pretty. But for how long could he do this? On one of his 4 am rides-of-shame home, he looked around and realised he was just another piece of meat on the one-night-stand guy conveyor belt.
Weak male figures Nicolaj, a local, explains his passive approach to the dating arena. The result was he became overly careful about showing alpha traits that could shake up the female environment β the likes of the MeToo movement. This in turn exposes Danish girls who are raised by weak male figures. Over time, they lose trust in the men they should be relying upon, and so they take it upon themselves to be STRONG and forward β even to get sex.
Louise, another local friend, has a very detached attitude to sex and loves to tell me her stories. I never bought into the idea that the sex dynamic in Denmark is to the taste of everyone β even the locals. And after years of living here and working with my clients, I am finally getting answers! They actively seek one-night stands and rush into things too fast β¦ because they do not know any other way. Many wish that men would just man up and go after them.
Maroua is a dating advisor. She helps young professional women who are tired of dating BS to have a healthy love life. Find out more here: themagneticdater. That night, he came, but with it came feelings of deep emptiness.
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