Estimated reading time: 15 minutes. I identify myself as a sex-averse heteroromantic asexual. To describe my experience the best: I am a cis gender 33 year old male who enjoys quite a lot a female company.
In other words, I feel very comfortable around women. I feel the emotional connection and enjoy sharing things and spending time with them quite a lot.
I have a couple of female friends I meet up with quite regularly and we do activities together, such as going for walks, for coffee, chatting with each other, going for trips, going to a museum, etc. I generally have a very good mutual connection with these women and we enjoy spending time together quite a lot. I also like being physical in some ways with women.
I enjoy things like hugging, holding hands, being physically close to each other. Particularly bachata is a type of dance that is quite romantic and there is a certain intimate, physical and also emotional aspect with my female dance partners I enjoy quite a lot.
At the same time, however, there is this ace and sex-averse part of me. I do not feel sexual attraction to any other person or gender whatsoever. I had sex three times in my life and I did not like it at all, it felt more like an obligation for me I was actually glad when it was over.
